Next week, I promise I’ll have a cute picture of Jared and Destiny at the San Diego Wild Animal Park. For now, I wanted to take a minute to share a little “fairy tale” that my friend Deb wrote for me, after I asked her to envision where my business might take me.
I received some great ”vision statements” from many friends and family members through this exercise, but this one was certainly the most poetic. I also think that it captured why I have embarked upon this venture (or misadventure as it seems at times) of blogging about family travel and writing travel guidebooks.
Deb has given me a eloquent mission statement of sorts. In the coming days, months and years I’ll be trying to live up to her high standards.
Deb’s Dream for Me
Once upon a time there was a woman who, because of divine determination, destined herself to be the female steward for 3 amazing kids. In her search to introduce said children to the wonders of this amazing planet this woman became perplexed. Why, said she, did family vacations and adventures need to be so problematic. Where were healthy eating places, kid friendly and affordable lodging, potties with toilet paper and smiles, no entrance fees, fresh air and natural sounds of birds and musical instruments rather than the clanging and crashing of all things battery driven?
In this age of “Greening” why are interactive toys and games made with a seasonal expiration date. If we are teaching our children to be saviors of the earth, she thought, why do we provide them with landfill? What happened to literature for kids and art and singing and meals together and conversation and laughter? There must be places, other than in my amazing home, where these values are truly valued, where the village is valued regardless of political bent, where the entrance fee isn’t an IZOD T-shirt, or where there’s no entrance fee at all, because of course God didn’t intend for His amazing handiwork to be inaccessible to anyone.
“Wait”, thought the woman. “God has blessed me with the gift of faith. He has also provided me incredible brains, patience, hutzpah, and kindness. I also know that the rewards to me of using these “God gifts” will more than satisfy my needs. And although at times I rue the day that Gates and Jobs were born, I have developed skills and a compatibility with computers that affords me an opportunity to enhance peoples lives in ways beyond one person’s ability to imagine.” “I CAN CHANGE THE WORLD; ONE KID, ONE DESTINATION, ONE HAPPY MOMENT, ONE EFFORTLESS TRIP, ONE OVERWORKED MOM, ONE FRAZZLED DAD, ONE DAY AT A TIME”, Bridget said. And she smiled.